You can only pair protected and recovery sites that have the same Site Recovery Manager extension ID.
To install
Site Recovery Manager in a shared recovery site configuration, you deploy
Site Recovery Manager Server on one or more protected sites, and deploy a corresponding number of
Site Recovery Manager Server instances on the shared recovery site.
What to read next
Procedure
Use vSphere Replication in a Shared Recovery Site Configuration You use vSphere Replication with Site Recovery Manager in a shared recovery site configuration in the same way that you do in a standard configuration.
Configure the Site Recovery Manager Appliance on Multiple Protected Sites to Use with a Shared Recovery Site You must deploy and configure a Site Recovery Manager Appliance on each protected site to use with a shared recovery site.
Configure Multiple Site Recovery Manager Server Instances on a Shared Recovery Site You deploy multiple Site Recovery Manager Server instances that all extend the same vCenter Server instance on the shared recovery site.
Connect the Site Recovery Manager Sites in a Shared Recovery Site Configuration In a shared recovery site configuration, you connect the Site Recovery Manager sites in the same way as for a standard one-to-one configuration.
Use Array-Based Replication in a Shared Recovery Site Configuration You use array-based replication with Site Recovery Manager in a shared recovery site configuration in the same way as you do in a standard configuration.
Configure Placeholders and Mappings in a Shared Recovery Site Configuration The customers of the shared recovery site can share the resources on the recovery site. Alternatively, you can assign isolated resources to each customer.